3/28/2010

The Ghost of relationships Past...


Do we carry the baggage of our past relationships on our shoulders? I mean, it is obvious that to a certain extent we do. I'm sure that if in your past relationship you watched Chris Rock together and laughed that you will be forever reminded of that person when watching that comedian or maybe if you were extremely spoiled in your last relationship, if you were pampered and constantly told you were loved, well you may most likely expect or look for that in a future relationship.
But now what about the baggage part? You know those really heavy, not so good feelings or emotions, situations from your past relationship...do we carry those and if so how the hell do we get rid of them? If in your past relationships you were constantly made aware of your flaws when the relationship is over are you flawless or does it stay with you?
How can you move on into your future when the weight of relationships past is holding you back?